April 2019


March 2019

A 48 hour mini adventure -London -Salisbury-Bath-Salisbury- Stonehenge, Amesbury-Salisbury -London fufilled a desire to take a trip to Stonehenge and catch-up with some old friends and attend an inspiring evening at the Black Women in Theatre event at the OvalHouse.

One theory regarding the stones is that they are a memorial ancestor, the area being the location for many historic Barrows made it seem like it was a place I was meant to visit having recently reached the 2nd year anniversary of my dad passing. I felt no speacial energy only peace as the weight of the last few months lifted.

The trip helped make up for when the weather later in month meant that a few walking trips were postponed.

Steps in the East Pt1

I am travelling in Cambodia right now and at the start of the trip I was at Heathrow airport about to start my travels to South East Asia when I really felt my Dad’s presence with me. When he was younger he started his travels around western Africa when talking about his journey to the UK he talked about the journey as being on of adventure. I actually have a recording of him talking about he travels from Nigeria that once I have completed editing the sound file I will share in the future.

So I am at the airport and even though I wasn’t there (I met up with my Dad in Nigeria on his last trip there which was a long time coming) I think about the excitement he must have felt and the changes to travelling since his early days of travelling. Also it felt a little sad that this was the first long haul flight that I had taken since we said goodbye. He loved to hear about adventures we had been on and loved looking at out pictures.

My first feelings since arriving here have been that it really reminds of Nigeria, (Ibadan and Lagos) in particular Phnom Penh obviously with a south-east asia flavour.

An enquiry about my general health and the weather.

dad 2008
Dad, Southbank, London, 2008

A typical phone call with my dad involved the initial enquiry about my general health, the weather; when residing in Scotland this part of the conversation could take several minutes to discuss before moving on to the topics of the day.

He was my parental google albeit with limited parameters he had had a wide range of experiences in his 80+ years and I was always realising he had lived through several major historical events.

The day they announced another general election in 2017 so soon after the last one the year before was a day his passing a few weeks early really hit home. It was an event I would have looked forward to discussing with him.  Tears came to my eyes as I read the headlines at work realising that there were no discussions to be had with dad.

This post was written in response to  Daily Prompts, Typical.